We live only once

We save lot many things in our life many things of elite brands and display it in living room without knowing for what purpose it was purchased. Can you recall one day that you have used the same in your life.

As one of my friends has rightly pointed out in a WhatsApp message whom are you expecting to come to your house so dear to you calling your name to whom you take out your priceless things to be shared.

Whenever the children ask that today is their birthday or grandparents have come, we will use those branded bed sheets or plates etc then we will say why we will take it when some guests come. But can you ever recall a day when somebody has come and we have taken those branded things for use.

We live for tomorrow without living for today. We slog ourselves forgetting to think about ourselves and to be happy also. Daily we read hundreds of quotations but none of them make any impact to us so that we live for the present. We forget our obligations towards our parents which is the happiness of today instead we save for our children (without spending for the parents) who will for sure will be more informative than ourselves and go behind their happiness they understood from their peers.

Facts last forever unlike truths which nobody likes. We all know that we do not live a life which we wanted to. There is no charm with no interactions among the dear and near ones leading oneself to depression. We never understand that our surroundings are changing for the better or for the worse, future prove it. Mechanical we are …that a slightest change in the routine upsets everything.

As somebody said life is , how you design it. If you have choices choose the best and if don’t do the best. So take a decision to live for today, live the day in happiness and decide that today is the day that you were saving for. Forget everything, your illness, stress, strain etc and decide that you will choose the best and do the best to live this day with full of happiness…

There is nothing bigger than our life and live happily for we must believe that we live only once. 

Bank unions reject IBA's 8% wage hike offer

Unions have also rejected the proposal to introduce variable pay, which would be linked to return on assets and operating profit and would be part of the overall wage hike.

The Indian Banks' Association has raised its wage hike offer to 8% from 6% but failed to make bank employees unions happy.The unions have rejected the offer and threatened to go on strike on December 26.

"It is far below our expectation. We have urged upon them to improve their offer," said Rajen Nagar, president at All Indian Bank Employees Association.

Banks saddled with high level of non performing assets and successive quarterly losses would be looking to restrict the rise salaries and remunerations while unions are demanding at least 15% hike like they get under 10th bipartite settlement.

The wage revision by way of 11th bipartite settlement is due from November 1, 2017. Wage revision in public sector banks take place every five years.

Nine unions, under the banner of the United Forum of Bank Unions (UFBU), also demanded wage negotiation for bank employees under scale 1 to 7 while IBA's wage hike offer pertains to employees under scale 1 to 3. The bank lobby group favours bank wise wage settlement for senior employees of scale 4 and above.

Unions have also rejected the proposal to introduce variable pay, which would be linked to return on assets and operating profit and would be part of the overall wage hike.

The unions said the all India bank strike would also highlight their opposition against bank mergers.

(coutesy; economic times)  

IDEAS CHANGE DRIVEN BY PASSION

Driven by passion many many students are making entry into activities different from their graduation and post graduation qualifications.

We know that children select their line of studies by selecting the subject in which they score high, join colleges due to satisfy the interest of parents, my close friends are going to a particular college for a particular subject so I will also join there attitude etc.

Only very few students got the choice in the earlier decades to choose their interest. But now it is different. Academic qualification is only a base,  since in most of the cases the students or persons who follow their drives are least bothered about finance in the initial stages. They are always having at their background the academic qualifications which will help them to earn for livelihood when needed.

Here I feel , backed by drive of passion and one's own interest students can achieve success in their chosen activities. Support by way of finance, opportunities etc to be given at home, society and Government will definitely help the growth of the country.  Many innovative ideas which can change the life has to emerge.

Why the change is not comming in the majority? Only very few think different and act different for a change. a mighty fear is upon them. We are all victims of inferiority complex. We are afraid of being ourselves. we have to be proud of ourselves and there should be freedom from complexes and fear. Thinking in this line only brings changes in us which leads to innovative ideas beyond our academic qualifications.

The world still need a lot both material and spirituyal which are legitimate. The world is still entitled for better life , food, shelter, infrastructure for better comforts, happiness etc. So only new thinking and ideas can only change the world which can bring developments and thus the development of the country.

Ideas change driven by ones passion which will lead to new ideas and so on emerges a nation of strength and power.

Ego... without which life will be monotonous.

Ego is a coherent organisation of mental life, derived from the more primal structure,the Id, by modifications imposed on it by the external world.

Id is not very distinctively differentiated from Ego. It has two parts ...one is conscious and the other unconscious.

Instincts play a big role in Id and therefore perceptions too.

Three masters who need services of Ego are the three dangers: the external world,the libido of the Id and the severity of Super- ego. The driving power is produced by Id and and the Ego steers to reach the desired goal.

In a normal person there is no distinction between Id and Ego ,no inherent opposition too . When Ego takes control over Id an Ego-Id conflict is often the result. There will be some crippling of Ego. The warfare of Id and Ego is incessant,without it life will be monotonous. The components of behaviour will be more biologically expressed by evolution and integration.

Professor Jastrow has given us a logical and careful study in this regard. Id and Ego forms part of Freudian doctrines and one can conclude that without the warfare life will be boring and monotonous. 

Budding New TV Channels

TV channels must be able to reach the people by by going to them and must bring the truth to the public. Don't sensationalist and come out with mega serials which always create a negative energy in the minds of viewers and in the area too. 

TV channels must be the place for concrete and constructive discussions on political, social  economical educational areas which can improve the thought process and thereby can lead changes. 

Now a days it is painful to see certain discussions. The so called anchors leading the debate the way they want to and thereby satisfying the objectives of the management. Then in some channels it is like 🐠🐋🐟 vending in markets. Too many vendors calling upon very few buyers and thus confusing them. 

TV Channels must think about their approach to the society and must work for building a great country for which everything must start from the root level instead of flaring up and sensationalising trifle issues many a times. 

Let the channels utilise themselves by not allowing to propagate hate speech,  flare up issues etc and thus bring harmony in the society. It should be like that always. 

We can salute before the channels too for bringing out truth in certain issues to the public which had benefited them.